The Emotionally Intelligent Life

Who’s Really in Charge of Your Emotions?

Plinea Rubim
3 min readJan 18, 2023
Photo by Sydney Sims on Unsplash

Emotional self-control is a critical aspect of our daily lives. It allows us to navigate through difficult situations, makes rational decisions, and maintain healthy relationships.

But who is really in charge of our emotions? Is it our brain, our environment, or our own willpower?

The answer is that it’s a combination of all three.

Our brains are wired to respond to certain stimuli in certain ways, which can lead to certain emotions being triggered.

Our environment also plays a role in shaping our emotions, as the people and situations we encounter can evoke different feelings within us.

However, it’s important to note that we do have some control over our emotions. Our willpower, or our ability to regulate our thoughts and actions, can help us manage our emotions and respond to them in a healthy way.

One key aspect of emotional self-control is understanding the difference between an emotional response and a rational response.

An emotional response is an automatic response that is triggered by a specific stimulus, while a rational response is a conscious choice that is made…

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Plinea Rubim

Mom of Twins | Wife | Self Development | Entrepreneur | Funnel Builder. “I used to say a lot, now I do a lot. Documenting my growth “